Song is called "Mary" by Patty Griffin. I heard it on Sons of Anarchy and just fell in love with the song.

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I think this song spoke to me because of all the things that happen in everyday life and things that we as women, mothers, friends deal with and come to terms with. She is joined in this video which is the only one I could find with Natalie Maines from the Dixie Chicks. Was having a bad week and I listened to this song and it is helping.